暗恋是一种单相思。
是一种看似属于青春少男少女，其实哪个年龄都可能发生的落差情感。

暗恋的对象可以是一个相熟的人，也可以是陌生人。
又或者是不同的年龄阶段的人，例如同学，同事或者是知己。

像白日梦一样的暗恋，好处多多。
就像一场场免费的夜场电影，只要你心情足够好、耐力足够高，那么就可以享受它的好。
就像给心包上一层保鲜膜，不要捅破，目的是保鲜，让自己永远保持一颗不老的心。
因为恋爱的滋润，是青春不老的强力春药。

暗恋往往不会有完满的结果。
因为我们欣赏的人肯定是非常优秀、魅力无穷的。
但是人都有向上的心，往往我们暗恋的人也会找比自己更富吸引力的对象。
因此就完全有可能不把我们放在心上，暗恋的悲剧也由此而发生。

既然是暗恋，就无须表白，不会伤害到别人，又成全了自己。
何乐而不为呢？

如果暗恋的对象恰好也暗恋你，那实在是一桩幸福美好的事情！
但如果暗恋的对象对你熟视无睹，也不必那么难过。
就当暗恋是为了保持年轻美丽的护肤品，但是却是免费的哦。
省了多少买化妆品的钱啊，实在是一件于己有利的事情。

暗恋的感觉苦涩中带有甜美，看你如何去玩味！:)

如果你不爱一个人，就请你放手，好让别人有机会爱他/她。
如果你爱的人放弃了你，就请你放开自己，好让自己有机会爱别人。

有的东西你再喜欢也不会属于你的。
有的东西你再怎么留恋也注定是要放弃的。
爱是人生中一首永远也唱不完的歌。

人的一生中也许会经历许多种爱，但千万别让爱成为一种伤害。

真正女朋友的定义：     

女朋友就是在你们吵架时，虽然很想低头却别扭的不肯说出自己心里感觉的那个人；     
女朋友就是把你的承诺刻在心里，却仍是满腹幽怨地不停追问你会不会后悔的那个人。     
女朋友就是爱你爱得地老天荒却无论如何不肯开口表达的那个人；     
女朋友就是在马路上，怎么走步伐都想和你一样的那个人；     
女朋友就是在你面前时刻担心自己不够漂亮、不够可爱的那个人；     
女朋友就是躺在床上不断提醒你别误了上班，却忍不住用泪水打湿你背影的那个人；     
女朋友就是你走过的地方无论多危险，她也能陪着你走过去的那个人；     
女朋友就是虽然不会做菜，但还是毁了一间厨房，端出一碗加蛋、加青菜看起来 营养丰富却不怎么好吃的那个人；     
女朋友就是想方设法从算命、看相中寻找和你结合的原因，而结果却只能解释为缘分的那个人；    
女朋友就是你一天看不到，就像少一根肋骨的那个人；     
女朋友就是你绞尽脑汁、想着一切办法去讨好的那个人；     
女朋友就是在你满怀疲惫时，一想起就感觉到有阳光浓浓地染亮你的睫毛的那个人；     
女朋友就是让你放弃男子汉的架子，把高昂的头埋在她温暖的胸前的那个人；     
女朋友就是无论你走到那里，都不能使爱情平息，唇上带着她永远的温馨，带着她所有的幸福、所有的忧伤、所有的眼泪与欢笑的那个人。


一定要珍惜你眼前的女朋友！

朋友亲密无间
恋人 行影不离
那么朋友和恋人之间的区别是什么呢?


朋友是两个身体 一个灵魂
而恋人是一个身体 两个灵魂

朋友可以成为恋人，但恋人不能成为朋友！
很多恋人是由朋友演变而成的。

但如果有一天他们分手了，那他们就不可能再像他们恋爱前那样做朋友。
即使他们嘴上说“分手后，做朋友吧”，但他们也是在口是心非。
因为两个人相爱过，彼此的心里就会留下一些爱的痕迹，很难抹灭。

很多人都会错误地理解爱情，盲目地追寻爱情，荒唐地经营爱情。
到最后，还是回到了原点，失去了爱情，也失去了朋友。

为了所谓的“爱情”，而失去一个昔日的好朋友，真的不值得。
这个赌注是巨大的，风险也是巨大的。
有时候，真正的异性朋友真的很难得，也很知心。

如果你觉得自己对他/她的爱是没有结果的，那你就不要轻易地去说爱。
还是保留你们原有的那份纯真的友情吧。
因为，爱，一旦说出口，一旦走进去，就没有回头路了。

做一对很好的朋友，有时比恋人更好！
恋人可能会分手，但朋友绝对不会！

:)

Chapter 7
When Lenny was nine years old, we went to have dinner together at a kopitiam.

I ordered a cup of Milo for the children to share. After that, I took out my water bottle and drank the plain water as we waited for our food. Lenny slapped Yvonne’s hand when she took a sip of the Milo. Yvonne scolded Lenny when he slapped her. I banged the table with my hand and told them to stop it, if not they would drink the plain water from my water bottle instead, and I would drink the Milo. Yvonne continued to scold Lenny. Lenny slapped Yvonne again.

“Why don’t the two of you learn how to share?”

“I want my own Milo!” Lenny yelled. “I don’t want to share with Ah Girl lah! She licks the straw, and the straw has her saliva!”

“You two drink plain water instead!” I grabbed the cup of Milo towards me and passed them the water bottle. “Share this instead!”

Lenny looked like he was going to cry, but Yvonne folded her arms and smiled. Lenny then spanked Yvonne’s arm and Yvonne stopped smiling.

My son, before he died, confessed to me that it was a plan. They had wanted me to drink the Milo instead because I always did not order any drink for myself to save money. Therefore, they surreptitiously planned this quarrel for me to drink the Milo without me worrying about the cost.

That silly boy.

“Mama, when I grow up, I will bring you to a big restaurant to have dinner every day. You just tahan now, okay?”

Chapter 6 After two cycles of chemotherapy, Lenny broached the subject. Lenny had lost almost all his hair. He did not want to shave the remnants of his hair, for he claimed that those strands of hair were signs of him being alive. It pained me to hear him retching in the toilet. I had to drive more in order to pay his medical bills. The lights in the living room were not switched on. Lenny had moved in the dark to my room. Not a far distance; but when one could not even walk straight, it must be a chore. “Mama.” Lenny came in with the soft toy that Kelvin and I had bought before we got married; the soft toy that I had mistaken to be a shell-less turtle. It turned out to be a character in a not-so-famous comic. “Can you do me a favour?” I motioned him to sit beside me. I visualized a guardian angel looking at us: a weak mother and a sick son. It was the best combination for a fund-raising charity programme. Add in tears from the mother and a strong smile from the boy, this telegenic scene would generate at least a hundred thousand dollars in ten minutes. “Mama, can you pass this to Ah Girl?” Lenny laid the soft toy between us. “Melvin said that when a person is going to die, he will have powers to create something powerful. I put power into this. His name is CuteCute, because he is so cute. Now, he has the ability to prevent the Angel of Death from seeing children like us. Melvin said the Angel of Death has a…an otah to meet, and he has to take one person every day to heaven or hell. I promised Ah Girl something before, and I want to fulfil it.” I did not say anything to correct him. “I know cancer is, like, pass on from brother to sister and then like, sister will also have. That means Ah Girl may have cancer when she grows up, too. This CuteCute will save her. Mama, please.” As a mother, I should be telling him things like “don’t be silly” or “you will not die.” I said none of them. Instead, I patted his head, like how he had always patted his sister’s head. “Ah Boy, to show your sincerity, you’ll have to pass it to her yourself.” Lenny looked down and squeezed the soft toy’s arms. The body bloated. Lenny licked his lips as I stroked the soft toy. Ever since we had given him the soft toy, he brought it to wherever he went until he was seven years old. “What is it, Ah Boy?” Lenny turned to face me with half-closed eyes. “I don’t like to lie.” I widened my eyes. This was not making sense. Or maybe, it does. I waited. He did not say anything. I continued to wait. Both of us seemed to be waiting for each other to break the silence. “Mama,” Lenny finally started, “you and I know that no such thing as superpower exists. I never lie to Ah Girl before. But you have, Mama. This lie…may be able to motivate her. I don’t want to lie. I’m not saying that I want you to be the bad person. I just thought, since you’ve done it before, it should be easier. Mama, you understand?” -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I cried when i was reading this particular page... it's so heart-wrenching....

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I find him so attractive, so i decided to flood my post with his pictures!!

How can a guy like him be so fair so cute so handsome so tall so perfect at the same time!?

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