Hello folks!
Here's a long overdue 2014 post!
                 
To all my fellow relatives, friends, colleagues and secret admirers who are reading this...                      
Wishing everyone a very Happy New Year!
May you all be blessed with good health, wealth and have a very prosperous year ahead!

2013 ended good and hopefully 2014 will be better!
There's not much changes in my life last year and no new resolutions this year.
Hence, I'm still looking the same.
Except my hair is longer and straighter now.

Anyway before cny was approaching,
I was so determined to lose weight and was hoping to look fabulous on cny.
However, I still didn't managed to slim till the ideal weight that I want!
I think I'm just lacking of motivation. Loll.

And worst, I'm setting off to Bangkok next weekend!
How to lose weight like that?!?! zz

Ok fine fine.
So girls will still be girls.
Whenever they whine, they will still revolves around this topic.
So to those male readers out there, please bear with me as well.
Heh

So anyway, I promised myself I will be good this year,
Must be determined to resist all fooooood temptations
And I shall cut down on my food intake after I'm back from my bkk trip!

Ok! So that's all for my resolution for this year.
Haha.


Till then!
Muacks.

Love is not just about finding the right person, 
But creating a right relationship.
爱不仅仅在于要找到一个对的人，
还在于去建立一段美好的感情。


Nobody is stupid. 
It's just that sometimes, we choose to be stupid for us to feel a little bit of what they call happiness.
没有人是傻瓜。
只是有时候，我们选择装傻来感受那一点点叫做幸福的东西。


When you fully trust a person without any doubt, you'll finally get one of two results：
“A person for life” Or “A lesson for Life”. 
如果我们毫无疑问地去相信一个人，那结果只有两种，
要不就得到一生的知己，要不就得到一生的教训。

其实好朋友不太好寻找,
因为好朋友之间是不会让你烦恼的人
即使他惹了你,你也会原谅他的
因为他值得你去原谅

好朋友之间是不会因为一件事就把彼此的关系给搞坏的
其实好朋友是无法总结的，
只有你仔细地去体会

其实不用判断他是不是你的好朋友，
只要你好好的待他，我想他也一定会对你好的。

最后，我再告诉你，其实不必苛求你的朋友对你要没有秘密，
每个人心中都有那么一点空间，不要硬是要走进那个空间
为何不保留一点私人空间给彼此呢？

就算不能每天联络，或常常见到彼此，
可是只要你知道他能够为你分担痛苦，听你诉说，对你好，不是就足够了吗？

真心希望每个人都能找到这样一个知心的好朋友! :)

Hello there!!

It's been more than a month since i last blog.

I have like 101 things in mind to blog, but each time when i comes in the site, 

i just typed and stopped there and POOF!

Mental blocked!

Haha.. Silly me.

my life is pretty much boring as usual.

So just some quick write ups and random updates about myself..

my work is still as hectic as usual

eventhough i'm working overtime till late night almost everyday,

but so far i'm still enjoying it. 

 i have a great boss, wonderful colleagues, challenging work.

and a sweet office boyfriend.

so what more can i complain?! lol.

signed up kickboxing classes with my friends. 

and so far it's the 7th lesson already.

i'm still kinda slow at it.

my moves are still not sharp.

and i tend to forget the moves easily.

after i'm done with block 1 and proceed to block 2.

Bah! then i forget the moves for block 1 already. zz.

just did a matchmaking date for my friends today!

everything went as planned and it went smooth.

their impression was good and it was not awkward at all.

hopefully their relationship will work out and blossom!

i can't wait to see the results!

am planning a short getaway with my friends in February!

and the destination is none other than Bangkok, the land of smiles!

feeling excited about it, and hopefully it will happen!

have been going in/out JB for the past few months.

watching movies and eating here & there

gaining weights and growing horizontally.

cutting short and dying of my hair.

still crappy and crazy 

and lastly...

I miss you people.

see ya around!

till then!

David Beckham's daughter, Harper Seven Beckham is so cute!

Awww..... Isn't she adorable!!?
Bet she's going to be a heartbreaker when she grows up! Haha...

开口说话的四层境界，你在哪一层？

第一种境界：开口就杀人。

第二种境界：开口就烦人。

第三种境界：开口就服人。

第四种境界：开口就乐人。

一个人只要一开口说话，往往就能听这出个人的处事能力与做人的境界。

人没有完美，幸福没有一百分。

     不要轻易让自己掉眼泪。

你笑，全世界跟着笑。

你哭，全世界只有你一个人在哭。

　　

有些东西错过了就一辈子错过。

人是会变的，守住一个不变的承诺却守不住颗善变的心。

有时侯执着是一种负担，放弃是种解脱。

人没有完美，幸福没有一百分。

　　

知道自己没有能力一次拥有那么多，就不别去要求那么多。

否则苦了自己，也为难了对方。

　　

吳宗憲表演 Music I Remember.......

暗恋是一种单相思。
是一种看似属于青春少男少女，其实哪个年龄都可能发生的落差情感。

暗恋的对象可以是一个相熟的人，也可以是陌生人。
又或者是不同的年龄阶段的人，例如同学，同事或者是知己。

像白日梦一样的暗恋，好处多多。
就像一场场免费的夜场电影，只要你心情足够好、耐力足够高，那么就可以享受它的好。
就像给心包上一层保鲜膜，不要捅破，目的是保鲜，让自己永远保持一颗不老的心。
因为恋爱的滋润，是青春不老的强力春药。

暗恋往往不会有完满的结果。
因为我们欣赏的人肯定是非常优秀、魅力无穷的。
但是人都有向上的心，往往我们暗恋的人也会找比自己更富吸引力的对象。
因此就完全有可能不把我们放在心上，暗恋的悲剧也由此而发生。

既然是暗恋，就无须表白，不会伤害到别人，又成全了自己。
何乐而不为呢？

如果暗恋的对象恰好也暗恋你，那实在是一桩幸福美好的事情！
但如果暗恋的对象对你熟视无睹，也不必那么难过。
就当暗恋是为了保持年轻美丽的护肤品，但是却是免费的哦。
省了多少买化妆品的钱啊，实在是一件于己有利的事情。

暗恋的感觉苦涩中带有甜美，看你如何去玩味！:)

如果你不爱一个人，就请你放手，好让别人有机会爱他/她。
如果你爱的人放弃了你，就请你放开自己，好让自己有机会爱别人。

有的东西你再喜欢也不会属于你的。
有的东西你再怎么留恋也注定是要放弃的。
爱是人生中一首永远也唱不完的歌。

人的一生中也许会经历许多种爱，但千万别让爱成为一种伤害。

真正女朋友的定义：     

女朋友就是在你们吵架时，虽然很想低头却别扭的不肯说出自己心里感觉的那个人；     
女朋友就是把你的承诺刻在心里，却仍是满腹幽怨地不停追问你会不会后悔的那个人。     
女朋友就是爱你爱得地老天荒却无论如何不肯开口表达的那个人；     
女朋友就是在马路上，怎么走步伐都想和你一样的那个人；     
女朋友就是在你面前时刻担心自己不够漂亮、不够可爱的那个人；     
女朋友就是躺在床上不断提醒你别误了上班，却忍不住用泪水打湿你背影的那个人；     
女朋友就是你走过的地方无论多危险，她也能陪着你走过去的那个人；     
女朋友就是虽然不会做菜，但还是毁了一间厨房，端出一碗加蛋、加青菜看起来 营养丰富却不怎么好吃的那个人；     
女朋友就是想方设法从算命、看相中寻找和你结合的原因，而结果却只能解释为缘分的那个人；    
女朋友就是你一天看不到，就像少一根肋骨的那个人；     
女朋友就是你绞尽脑汁、想着一切办法去讨好的那个人；     
女朋友就是在你满怀疲惫时，一想起就感觉到有阳光浓浓地染亮你的睫毛的那个人；     
女朋友就是让你放弃男子汉的架子，把高昂的头埋在她温暖的胸前的那个人；     
女朋友就是无论你走到那里，都不能使爱情平息，唇上带着她永远的温馨，带着她所有的幸福、所有的忧伤、所有的眼泪与欢笑的那个人。


一定要珍惜你眼前的女朋友！

朋友亲密无间
恋人 行影不离
那么朋友和恋人之间的区别是什么呢?


朋友是两个身体 一个灵魂
而恋人是一个身体 两个灵魂

朋友可以成为恋人，但恋人不能成为朋友！
很多恋人是由朋友演变而成的。

但如果有一天他们分手了，那他们就不可能再像他们恋爱前那样做朋友。
即使他们嘴上说“分手后，做朋友吧”，但他们也是在口是心非。
因为两个人相爱过，彼此的心里就会留下一些爱的痕迹，很难抹灭。

很多人都会错误地理解爱情，盲目地追寻爱情，荒唐地经营爱情。
到最后，还是回到了原点，失去了爱情，也失去了朋友。

为了所谓的“爱情”，而失去一个昔日的好朋友，真的不值得。
这个赌注是巨大的，风险也是巨大的。
有时候，真正的异性朋友真的很难得，也很知心。

如果你觉得自己对他/她的爱是没有结果的，那你就不要轻易地去说爱。
还是保留你们原有的那份纯真的友情吧。
因为，爱，一旦说出口，一旦走进去，就没有回头路了。

做一对很好的朋友，有时比恋人更好！
恋人可能会分手，但朋友绝对不会！

:)

Chapter 7
When Lenny was nine years old, we went to have dinner together at a kopitiam.

I ordered a cup of Milo for the children to share. After that, I took out my water bottle and drank the plain water as we waited for our food. Lenny slapped Yvonne’s hand when she took a sip of the Milo. Yvonne scolded Lenny when he slapped her. I banged the table with my hand and told them to stop it, if not they would drink the plain water from my water bottle instead, and I would drink the Milo. Yvonne continued to scold Lenny. Lenny slapped Yvonne again.

“Why don’t the two of you learn how to share?”

“I want my own Milo!” Lenny yelled. “I don’t want to share with Ah Girl lah! She licks the straw, and the straw has her saliva!”

“You two drink plain water instead!” I grabbed the cup of Milo towards me and passed them the water bottle. “Share this instead!”

Lenny looked like he was going to cry, but Yvonne folded her arms and smiled. Lenny then spanked Yvonne’s arm and Yvonne stopped smiling.

My son, before he died, confessed to me that it was a plan. They had wanted me to drink the Milo instead because I always did not order any drink for myself to save money. Therefore, they surreptitiously planned this quarrel for me to drink the Milo without me worrying about the cost.

That silly boy.

“Mama, when I grow up, I will bring you to a big restaurant to have dinner every day. You just tahan now, okay?”

Chapter 6 After two cycles of chemotherapy, Lenny broached the subject. Lenny had lost almost all his hair. He did not want to shave the remnants of his hair, for he claimed that those strands of hair were signs of him being alive. It pained me to hear him retching in the toilet. I had to drive more in order to pay his medical bills. The lights in the living room were not switched on. Lenny had moved in the dark to my room. Not a far distance; but when one could not even walk straight, it must be a chore. “Mama.” Lenny came in with the soft toy that Kelvin and I had bought before we got married; the soft toy that I had mistaken to be a shell-less turtle. It turned out to be a character in a not-so-famous comic. “Can you do me a favour?” I motioned him to sit beside me. I visualized a guardian angel looking at us: a weak mother and a sick son. It was the best combination for a fund-raising charity programme. Add in tears from the mother and a strong smile from the boy, this telegenic scene would generate at least a hundred thousand dollars in ten minutes. “Mama, can you pass this to Ah Girl?” Lenny laid the soft toy between us. “Melvin said that when a person is going to die, he will have powers to create something powerful. I put power into this. His name is CuteCute, because he is so cute. Now, he has the ability to prevent the Angel of Death from seeing children like us. Melvin said the Angel of Death has a…an otah to meet, and he has to take one person every day to heaven or hell. I promised Ah Girl something before, and I want to fulfil it.” I did not say anything to correct him. “I know cancer is, like, pass on from brother to sister and then like, sister will also have. That means Ah Girl may have cancer when she grows up, too. This CuteCute will save her. Mama, please.” As a mother, I should be telling him things like “don’t be silly” or “you will not die.” I said none of them. Instead, I patted his head, like how he had always patted his sister’s head. “Ah Boy, to show your sincerity, you’ll have to pass it to her yourself.” Lenny looked down and squeezed the soft toy’s arms. The body bloated. Lenny licked his lips as I stroked the soft toy. Ever since we had given him the soft toy, he brought it to wherever he went until he was seven years old. “What is it, Ah Boy?” Lenny turned to face me with half-closed eyes. “I don’t like to lie.” I widened my eyes. This was not making sense. Or maybe, it does. I waited. He did not say anything. I continued to wait. Both of us seemed to be waiting for each other to break the silence. “Mama,” Lenny finally started, “you and I know that no such thing as superpower exists. I never lie to Ah Girl before. But you have, Mama. This lie…may be able to motivate her. I don’t want to lie. I’m not saying that I want you to be the bad person. I just thought, since you’ve done it before, it should be easier. Mama, you understand?” -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I cried when i was reading this particular page... it's so heart-wrenching....

Zo in-sung's soooooo handsome!

I find him so attractive, so i decided to flood my post with his pictures!!

How can a guy like him be so fair so cute so handsome so tall so perfect at the same time!?

And he's only 31! hahaha.. 

My new eye candy! <33 font="">